Letters To Alex on the Remembering Alex Site

My dear sweet little man,

It has been nine long months since your passing over the bridge and I know you have things well under control there, after all you are Alex!

There is much to say, but little that hasn't all ready been said about all that you have achieved during your short stay here on earth, much has been written and videos, I never tire of reading ,and watching them. You were the reason I got my first Grey, her name is Marley she is the sweetest little lady ever.She has been with me almost fifteen years now and is having some serious health issues, I pray not but she may be joining you soon , when you see her just fly right up and say " Good morning sunshine girl" that is what I call her, my sunshine girl!

I will be devastated when she passes but there is nothing I can do to change what God has decided. I think maybe he wants a sweet little grey Queen to join his King ,so you take good care of her .

Oh and if you have seen a little red min pin running around at 100 MPH, that would be Sidney, she loves birds and would allow you a ride on her back if you wanted.

I think your bothers Griff and Wart are doing fine and are giving all they have to carry on your work, but I'm sure they miss you terribly as do all your human friends left behind.

I worry about both your moms ,Dr. P and Arlene....I know they will never be the same, your passing left a hole in their hearts that will never completely heal. I sometimes think knowing that feeling of complete emptiness, the hurt that brings us to our knees and racks our body, the ache in the pit of our stomachs that never goes away, crying uncontrollable, hurting so bad we think that surley we will die and most of all the feeling of helplessness because we can not go back in time and change what has happen, is what has brought this group together. We all know those feelings to well. We have all had that one or more special animal companion who God called to soon to join him. Some people don't understand those feeling towards animals, they say" They are not human they are just animals "and I say to those people, No" YOU are not human"

So your see Alex, in your passing you have created this family of "Corknuts" , you brought us together from all around the world to laugh, cry ,give support to and to just be there for each other and to share our love for all animals. You done good little man in more ways than a lot of humans have.

You take care now and watch for my Marley girl, I love her so much and do not want to let her go, but I can not change what has been decided, I know she will be in very good hands when the time comes. I will find comfort knowing she is flying high and free with you .

"God's speed little man, sweet dreams little man my love will fly to you each night on Angel's wings.'

Marley,Maxwell,Jack,Gabby,Zachery,Little Bit and Jessy's Mom

Kaye

Hi, Grey Man, how's it going? So many miss you SO VERY MUCH, still to this day. None more than your mom, Dr P and 2nd mom Arlene. Guess it was just time, even if we can't understand why..you still had so much to teach everyone. Tell me, did you know? Your last words to Dr P make me wonder sometimes..well, there are many more here who want to write to you too, and I know you are quite busy up there, so will keep it short now. We are planning a VERY special remembrance; Help us along with that, will you? Whistle hello to all those furkids that I have loved and lost lo these many years, and.as always, you're in my heart, you're in my soul.

Martha

Dearest Alex,

I've watched you from afar for many years. I fell in love with you by reading stories and articles about your life with Irene and her staff at the lab. One time I was able to hear Irene speak and she didn't bring you - I was so disappointed! I wanted to finally meet you in person. But she said you were getting too old to travel and she brought a movie of you. It was so much fun to see you on that big screen being totally adorable. I wanted to give you a big kiss! You have enriched my relationship with my rescued bird Oscar, and because of you, I've been able to develop an even greater love and understanding of "Oskie". Oscar makes me laugh every single day, and I am sure you made everyone around you laugh every day, too. We laugh together, and play together, and I know your human friends miss laughing and playing with you very much. I wish you could have been with us longer, Alex. There was so much more we needed to learn from you.

With lots of love and tears,

Judi and Oscar Bird

Dear Alex,

How are you doing, up there above the crowd?
Are you teaching all the birds to count?
Their colors? That corn and green beans are yummy?

We all miss you down here on earth, if you would ask all of us would say you left us here way tooooo soon. But something's are beyond our control.

Robbie is doing well and Dante has moved to Nevada, both, I think are missing each other. Please watch over them. Have you run into Cobalt and Slade? Jen really loved those two lovebirds. Hope you have taught them some things...

We are all trying to take care of your Mom, Dr P,, and also Arlene, they both work too hard. Grif and Wart seem to be doing okay, I'm told that when Grif is in a session he still waits for you to answer for him..... you left some big shoes for them to fill.

Oh, can you also keep an eye out for Peanut? He's a cockatiel that flew away from his mommy and she misses him soooo much. Maybe you could help him find his way home?

Well, little man, we miss you every day. Fly high and fly free, and we will talk to you again soon...

Love,
Nikki, Robbie, and Dante.........

Hi Alex,

I just want you to know just how special you still are to all of us in this group and we miss you a lot! You were able to bring all of us
together to care and look after each over and that I know was your plan!

Mowgli and me want you to know, that in our hearts we know that you are looking after Skyler for us at the rainbow bridge and we are glad that you are taking good care of him!

All of us are taking good care of Dr. P. Arlene, Jamie and the rest at the lab so that the program can go on! You are special and always will be to everyone!

As you have asked us we are making sure that Dr. P and your friends Wart and Griffin will be taken care of!

I have one favor to ask of you? Could you have a talk with Wart and Griffin so that they will learn their lessons right so that they can carry on for you?

We miss you little grey buddy!

Love Always,
Cindy L. and Mowgli
Portland, OR

To Our Great Grey Ambassador, Alex.

It has been 9 months since you left us for the Rainbow Bridge. Your passing has affected us all in so many different ways. I never
got to meet you but I knew all about you and your mom, Irene and everything that you both had accomplished. You showed the world that there was more to a parrot than pretty feathers, you had a brain. You taught us so much about parrots and what to expect from them and because of you so many of us got our first parrots and learned how to care for them and love them.

I got to meet your mom, Irene at the Midwest Bird Fair in Dupage on April 5th, 2008. She is a wonderful woman and strong, but she
misses you so very much as does your step mom Arlene. You are now their guardian angel so please watch over them and help them through their grieving. Your brothers, Griffin and Arthur miss you also, they are trying their best to fill your big shoes.

You gave so much of your self without asking for much in return except for love, treats and scritches. You will be forever missed,
but always loved and remembered.

Fly high and free my sweet grey one and please watch over my sweet tiel Digger. It will be 3 yrs ago on June 11, 2005 that he
suddenly passed over the Rainbow Bridge. I still dearly miss him.

Love,
Teri C.
SweetPepper, my senegal
Maxi and Kacey, cockatiels

Dear Alex,

Three years ago, my daughter studied a story about you in her third grade class called, "Do Animals Think?" There was a picture in the school book of you and your mama, Dr. Pepperberg. We 'overlooked' the story then, not knowing much about birds. Two years ago, my daughter Zoe decided that she wanted a pet bird because her friend had one. She chose a Cockatiel and named him Peech. Once you get one bird and find out what incredible companions they are, you are hooked. So, I decided I wanted a bird. After 9 months of research, reading, and praying God brought an even tempered African Grey into our lives. Solomon has become an important part of our family. We can't imagine life without him. (We even read the Alex Studies together, though he was more interested in EATING the pages, then reading them...need to work on that with him!)

When I went online to do more research on Greys, I was devastated when I read that you'd passed away. I didn't even know you personally and was touched by your story and the impact that you have had in your short life here on earth. A few months ago, I was substitute teaching in the 3rd grade classroom and low and behold, the kids were studying the chapter on, "Do Animals Think?" I brought Solomon to school with me and we watched a video together from PBS with Alan Alda. The kids were AMAZED!! The librarian at our school's son, has autism and I shared with her how you and Dr. Pepperberg are helping kids with disabilities through the research continuing on with Griffin and Wart (Arthur).

Your memory will go on for generations because of your quirky personality and willingness to 'work' with the humans to communicate what is going on in that 'bird' brain of yours. You will always be loved, and never be forgotten!

With much gratitude and admiration,

Tim, Samantha, Shoshanah, Zoe and Solomon Wright

Dearest Alex,

This is by far, the hardest letter I have ever had to write in my life...

It is almost impossible to believe that nine months have already gone by since you left this earth and all your beloved humans and special friends behind, so as to move on and continue the work God planned for you. You know only too well how many people are hurting by your parting, but in time, they and we will understand better why you had to part ways when you did. The person hurting most, suffering deep down where you never saw, is the person who brought you home from that pet shop where from that first day with her, there was a bond, so strong that only your death could break it. Those who worked with you at the lab are hurting as well, in many ways, but your heart was shared with Dr. Irene Pepperberg and there is a giant hole now, which hopefully will gradually close, from being filled with good memories of your time spent together. Do not feel guilty that you left - it was meant to be. All things happen for a reason. You will never be forgotten. You will be missed but will live on in the hearts of those whom you left behind.

You were chosen by employee at a pet shop, one who picked you out at random, not knowing what you would prove to the world along with Dr Pepperberg's teaching and guidance. People still don't believe, after 30 years, but we know... *we*, the group of special people you brought together know and believe, and we are trying to do everything in our power to keep things going at The Alex Foundation, not only in your honor but with what you have already shown everyone in such a short time, we all know and believe there is so much more we can learn from your younger siblings, Griffin and Arthur, when they are ready. We are all giving our support in any way we can, to help the Alex Foundation condition with what was started 30 years ago.

Thanks to you, Dr. Pepperberg, Arlene, and everyone who ever worked with you, I have some small knowledge of how to teach my own birds. There is small progress, but to me, it means the world, because if not for you, and the fact that yes, you may be a bird to some - but I see you as a feathered kid, or a fid and my own parrots are treated that way. So - you have feathers and we wear clothes.

You will never be forgotten little grey one - it is so unfortunate that many only heard of you and your accomplishments after you passed on. But now we have to think of the present and the future. A special group of came together and bonded closer than many families because of you, and we are here everyday, celebrating what you have done and are still doing, and more importantly supporting those who were close to you, and even each other. Things have happened in the past nine months that we can only attribute to you, and we strongly believe that you are causing certain turns of events in a way that no other could. Keep it up little one - you now have new strength to carry you on for more than the 31 years you spent on earth.

A book was written by Dr. Pepperberg, about the time you and she spent together, and I cannot wait to read it.

Just the other day I went out and bought. like many others, a butterfly bush, to plant in your honor. I was so excited to find out that they will grow in our climate and I cannot wait until it is big enough to blossom. I plan on putting a small plaque beside it, saying it is in your honor.

God speed dear Alex... and don't ever stop or change what you are doing.

Love,

Paula

and my flock of 7- Gizmo, Jasper, Marley, Max, Micky, Pepper and TiPaul

Dear Alex,

I struggle as I realize that on this June 6, 2008 your physical presence has not been with us for nine months. It couldn't have been that long ago - I still weep about your loss, especially every Banerry Corknut Day. You are the only being who has effected me in quite this manner. Perhaps it's because I recognize more and more as time flits by that you are and will remain the most important parrot in the history of the world.
Homo Sapiens owes you a debt we can never repay for the work you did on our behalf.

In trying to decide what to say to you today, I came across a poem that we have heard before but which is among my favorites. I think it sums up a message that you would have all of us remember.

Do not stand by my grave and weep
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am a diamond glint on snow.
I am the sunlight on unripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you awake in the morning hush
I am the swift, uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.

Do not stand at my grave and cry -
I am not there
I did not die.

Your legacy - rich with accomplishment - will continue on as you watch over and guide your feathered proteges and those who work with and care for them. Even though we
can't see or touch you, I know you are near. All I have to do is listen with my heart and I
hear you around us.

Because of what you did, I have an even greater appreciation for the psittiacines who grace my life. I have always had the greatest respect for the non-humans in my life, but your work took my understanding to yet another level.

I sing your praises often to the people with whom I come in contact. My mission continues to be to improve the lives of parrots in captivity, one parrot at a time. Your work has made it easier to convince many people to look at their feathered friends in a new light.

Thank you!

Pat Hi.
State of Washington

Dear Alex,

The void left by your passing is enormous. But Griffin and Arthur are trying hard to learn the lessons. I heard Grif waits for you to
answer, he just needs a bit more confidence I think.

Irene has written a book about her life with you. We're all waiting for it to be released. This written account of your exploits will
enlighten the next generation and your fame will live on. Alex, you gave your all and we will never look at parrots in the same way since you showed us a window into your amazing mind. Countless companion birds have richer, fuller lives because their humans understand them so much better because of you. Even children with learning disabilities are benefiting from the learning methods you and Irene developed.

We all wish you could have been here longer. You are so missed by all of us who never even met you, but for Irene and Arlene it must be just about unbearable. We are trying to help and encourage them, and Jaimi who does your wonderful web site, by being good friends to them and by buying from the store to support the ongoing work of your foundation. It's the least that we can do.

Alex, your physical presence may be gone from us, but you live on in the hearts and minds of all who love you. Rest in peace, sweet boy.

Love, Patricia, Suzie & Kirby
(Patricia L. Portland, OR)

Dear Greyt Guy, Alex,

Many years ago I read an intriguing article about a young scientist and her African Grey named Alex. Little did I know then what a wonderful part of my world you would become. Of course we had no internet to research, so I read all I could find about you and your mommy, Irene from my various parrot magazines. We had birds living with us back then, one of them being Skeeter, a young African Grey. I tried to model my birds after you, especially Skeeter. You would have laughed at a little Cockatoo we had named Cricket. I'm sure he thought he was a white and yellow African Grey. Cricket is with you up there and I'm hoping that you have become fast friends.

I always talked about my birds, but I always bragged about you as if you were my own. People would look at me in disbelief and give me that 'yeh, right' look. Then I started seeing you on tv and anyone who saw you finally understood. I would watch you and Dr. P. and I'd always get a lump in my throat, pure admiration! You helped me to realize the true intelligence of my birds, and how to nurture that intelligence.

I find it so hard to believe that you have been gone for 9 months. In some ways it feels like yesterday and in other ways it feels like years. I still have tears looking at the videos and articles about you. I have been reading everyone's letters and how much they all love you and the tears just keep coming. Breaks my heart, because I love you too. I was devastated that day last September 6th, all I could do was cry. I am still trying to understand how you - a bird I never met - could make such a big hole in my heart. But then, we all know just how special you really were/are. I am doing up a special book for your Mom with all the condolences from this list and other condolence sites. It's taking longer than I thought it would, but I always end up crying, then have to dry up and do some more. I found this poem the other night, someone had sent it to me last year when my brother passed away, and I can picture you telling us exactly this.

Remember me with smiles and laughter
for that is how I will remember you all.
If you can only remember me with tears,
then don't remember me at all.

With much love,

Nancy

Dearest Alex,

It seems hard to realize it has been nine months since you have left us.

In that time I have learned more about you than ever. You have left an indelible mark on my heart and have changed my life as I knew it forever.

It is an honor to continue working on your web page. When people asked me what I did, I always proclaimed proudly "I work for Alex!"

I still work for you Alex and your moms :) and "brothers", I miss your face, I miss your sweet little voice, every time I look at a video, photo or parts of the web page my eyes fill with tears.

You be good up there.....you take really good care of Tico and Skeets for me!! Say hi to Bear and you tell them all I miss them more than words can say.

Alex you worked your little heart out for Irene and you still continue to work. Thank you Alex, thank you for all you have done for everyone, thank you for bringing all these wonderful people together.

You are deeply and sorely missed, fly high little dude!

J :)

Dear Alex,

Hello from Purdue.. Your first home. You wouldn't believe how much it has changed since you were here. It's grown so much.
I did hear from one of the students I work with, that her Psychology class had video about you. She rushed into work to tell me that day,.knowing of my love for you and how much I miss you.

Today the blueprints for our garage/apartment were finally finished and Neil brought them home. We are one step closer to being
out at the river property. I want to make it a sort of retreat that your extended family can come to to relax and be part
of nature..I will plant some banerry trees for you and have a garden with your favorite veggies. There are woods on both sides
of the long drive way entrance and I love to sit there among all the trees and as I do so, I remember that you used to say "wanna
go tree". Well... there are lots of trees there! You would be amazed at all the birds.. Hummingbirds to Geese and Eagles too!
And the river below has many secrets to tell. This retreat will be here to comfort those that miss you..

Jellybean and or Starburst, Lynne's cockatiel babies, will come to live with us and maybe later an African Grey that needs us
will come join our family.. I will remember all that you taught us!

Both of your Mom's are working hard and they miss you so much.. I know you are watching over them but your extended
family will do the best we can to raise their spirits.

Sending my love to you on the whispering winds..

Paula (AKA Pauliana)

Paula J. A.
Lafayette Indiana..

Dear Alex

It was only two weeks ago that I found out about your passing. It is still so new and raw to me. Where have I been for 8 1/2 months?
What bubble was I living in? On this nine month anniversary, I too, wanted to join the rest of us that come here daily to honor you but I find it so difficult to put into words. I know that you are in God's hands and are watching over us. You are there to comfort us when we feel overwhelmed with the pain of losing you and in time this pain will not be as strong as I feel now.

Let me thank you Alex. Because of you I decided that I wanted to have an African Grey in my life. Because of you I have Layla. She is the light of my life and when I look at her I see you. I even hear you in her voice. What a joy you have given me and joy I will treasure for as long as God allows me. Because of your passing I have realized that I can't take her for granted. I have realized I must rearrange my life to be with her more. What a wake up call you gave me and I thank you for that too. Sometimes we get caught up with the daily chores of life and forget but you showed me what is really important. Again I thank you.

Alex, I have so many furry and feathery friends up there and I know that you are there with them and all are watching me. I also believe that when I feel that pain of grief come over me for any that has passed it is them being close to me at that very moment. I know that every time I feel the pain of your passing it is you sitting on my shoulder telling me "It is alright, I am here" and that gives me the comfort and strength to carry on. I feel you here with me now guiding me to write these words. I never had the honor of meeting you but feel I have always known you. I will always miss you but know one day I will have that honor and you will greet me along with all my loving companions at that gate to heaven.

So until that time you will carry on in my heart and mind.

I love you,

Helen

Goodmorning little gray guy ....its another beautiful day here on earth ....whats it like up there little guy? " wanna go back" he says ....he is missing his mommy Irene and Arlene and all the others at the lab and brothers Griffin and Wart ....he's says its just fantastic here over the rainbow where I can play and teach all the others but just once in a while I think of the ones I left behind and see their tears and for a brief moment I long for them but it is really much nicer here over the rainbow than on earth and I know that one day soon they will all join me and we will be that big wonderful happy family even better than what we had together on our earth days .....I have lots of wonderful humans here at the rainbow and even some that were close to you all giving me scritches and kisses and my favorite snacks like yummy corn,banerrys,corknuts....
I told Alex that this is wonderful news and with that he flew off higher in the distance and said "you be good" see you tomorrow .....love you all ..
You see i hear time stands still in heaven so Alex is waiting for us tomorrow....Can't wait to see you tooo sweetheart for i miss you and miss my Sydney (Grey),Darma (GW),Jada(Too), Beaky (Grey),Waddles (GW) and one fantastic dog named Winston (scnauzer)

Brigitta K.
Hamilton Ont Canada

Hi Alex,

We all miss you alot. I know that you are still here with all of us keeping an eye on the wonderful family that you have created. We are doing everything we can to spread the word of your wonderful work with Dr. P. She is still very sad so could you please make some of your magic to help her to feel better. Also could you please have a little chat with Grif and Wart and encourage them to learn fast and say better - I know that will surely bring a big smile to Dr. P's beautiful face.We are all trying very hard to help ease the sorrow for Dr.P, Arlene , and everyone at TAF who were blessed to be able to personally learn so much from you . And Alex we will continue to work hard and learn - I promise.Your gift of this wonderful family is cherished by all of us - we are taking very good care of one another which I'm sure makes you very happy

Last week I planted 3 beautiful butterfly bushes for you. They are small now but they will grow tall and beautiful. They are tri color bushes. I can't wait for you to see them. The flowers on each bush will bloom in 3 different colors. What a wonderful spot for you and all of your winged friends to visit.

Please try to keep Gizmo under control as you know how unruly he can be.. Actually I need to thank you and Gizmo for always being here for me - it is a great comfort. I know all the gang at the bridge are happy, healthy, and having a wonderful time with you being in charge.

Rocky, Pepper, Lowkie, Tweaky, Goliath, and Pip send their love. Tweaky's beak is healing fine - Thank you for watching over him.

You be good now - don't get into too much trouble - OK
See you later.
Love you,
Nicole, Kerri & Eddie

Dearest Alex,

I waited until the stroke of midnight to light your candle. Meg and I lit it together and shared a moment of silence in your honor. I hope you feel the warmth of our group's love winging its way heavenward to embrace you.

I, like everyone here, am so greatful for all you taught and shared with us during your mission here on Earth. I didn't know about you when God sent Meg, my guardian angel, to me. I was so excited and so grateful when I heard about you. For all who had doubted and some who'd called me crazy when I spoke of Meg's intelligence, I now had proof. "Take THAT!!"..LOL!! I will always remember you as the savior of my reputation! For that I thank you, your Mom Irene, your other Mom, Arlene and all who shared your life, gave you the tools to work with and brought your accomplishments to the media, from the bottom of my heart.

I have so much to thank you for, dear Alex. For dedicating your life to enlightening the world to the intelligence of birds and animals, for the pure joy you brought us, for the laughs, for the respect you still command and demand for all birds, for bringing this group of wonderful and caring people together.

Know you are loved and missed, dear Alex. Know that we celebrate your life every day and will never forget you.

Please watch over Meiguinha for me. And all our pets who are keeping you company at the Rainbow Bridge.
Boy, you sure have your work cut out for you, don't you :)

Bless your heart, dear Alex, and thank you once again for all the joy you brought and continue bringing to us.

Scritches and tickles and all our love,

Barb&Meg

Hiya Alex – how ya doing buddy? Thinking about you today. My Kita was asking about you “Where’s Alex?” I assured her you were here watching out for her and others, and you guys would meet up at some point. She knows you because of your picture hangin in the dining room, you know, the one with you and the good doc. Great pic BTW. Wish I was that photogenic J

Hey, got a joke for ya: (modified it a little)

A CAG flys into a bar and asks, "Got any corknuts?"
The bartender, confused, tells the bird that no, his bar doesn't serve corknuts. The grey thanks him and leaves.
The next day, the CAG returns and says, "Got any corknuts?"
Again, the bartender tells him that, no, the bar does not serve corknuts, has never served corknuts, and, furthermore, will never serve corknuts. The grey, a little ruffled, thanks him and leaves.
The next day, the CAG returns, but before he can say anything, the bartender begins to yell: "Listen, bird! This is a bar! We do not serve corknuts! If you ever ask for corknuts again, I will nail your stupid bird beak to the bar!"
The CAG is silent for a moment, and then asks, "Got any nails?"
Confused, the bartenders says no.
"Good!" says the CAG. "Got any corknuts?"

Now is that a smart bird, or what?

Anyway dude, gotta get back to work. Hope things are going well for you and all of the others. Keep an eye on Pana for me, will you? He’s a little skiddish sometimes, as you know.

Luva,

Bill

Dear Alex,

I am a friend of your webmaster Jaimi. I know that you are deeply missed by many people who love you. Your a very smart amazing little guy. I am sorry I didn't know more about you and your work sooner. I know the pain that all those who love you are feeling.You see somewhere flying free around the bridge with you are three tiny finches. My sweet little cagney a sort of orange and tanish color society finch, my sweet little toto a creamish color looks almost white zebra finch and then there is my sweet little louise black and white with a bit of tan crested society finch. They were taken from me way to soon.If you see them please tell them their mom misses them and she loved them so. I still do. One day I will meet them all at the bridge as those who loved you will meet you.Fly high Alex. I know you will never be forgotten.

With love from a friend.

Loren

Dear Alex,
The last nine months since you went on to the "Rainbow Bridge"
have gone by so quickly. I think alot has to do with all the wonderful people you have brought together. We've all kept each other so busy and I have found this group to be a wonderful support.
See my little Peanut has flown away and I know you know where he is but you can't tell me. We all have our lessons in life we need to learn. And those lessons are never easy. Look at everything you've accomplished and you did it all with much hard work on your part. Im finding this to be one of the hardest I've been through. Knowing you are there watching over Peanut wherever he is is quite a comfort.
You must know by now how important you always will be, not only to your immediate family, Dr Pepperberg, Arlene and all of those you have charmed along the way (let's face it, God really did break the mold after you Alex) but to those of us that have gotten to know you through t.v shows, articles in numerous magazines, and newspapers and most of all through the personal stories told here within this group.
We here are your extended family. I even named my little plumhead after you and I call him your nephew. My goodness he has such big shoes to fill! I can't look at him without thinking of you.I love that I get the feeling you're really shining there at the bridge Alex.
One day we'll all get to meet you personally and you'll be very easy to find. Look for the bright light in the middle of the corknut and banerry trees!!!!!
With Love
Lynne and all her feathered and furkids

Dearest Alex,

You are often on my mind. I find comfort in looking at photographs of you--and reading stories about you and those who worked with or knew you. You are a most special parrot, one who will never be forgotten. Now I wear your T-shirts & pins and have your photograph in my home, it being a most cherished treasure. The reality is I never dreamed you would be leaving the earth so quickly. It pains me to admit that I think about you more often now than when you were still with us. For many years, possibly 20, I spoke to friends and strangers about you. I have always loved you, Alex, from the deepest part of my being, understanding that you are extraordinary. Dr. Irene Pepperberg long ago became my hero. It wasn't until your sudden death that I felt the intense pain of my love for you. Yes, I still cry about you, dearest little prince. I have my own beloved companion birds, the joy of my life, yet you, precious little parrot that I've never kissed, have always held the same place in my heart as my own beloved birds. You will always be with those of us who love you. Thank you, most beloved boy, for telling us, "You be good." I love you.

Patti A.

Camarillo, CA

What an amazing bird, you were! You made my love and understanding of parrots extend WAY beyond what it ever would have been without you.

You are dearly missed and your companions miss you, as well as myself and my African Senegal, Caleb. She loves to watch you and you are an inspiration to her, still.

I KNOW that birds go to heaven because God made you, and has a special place for you there.

You are dearly missed, my feathered friend. You are loved!

God Bless you, and The Alex Foundation for sharing you with the rest of us.

Vickie S.
Caleb, too.

Dearest Alex,

There are no words to express the depth of loss we all feel since you`ve departed the earthly plane. We are left with the beautiful, special, wonderful memories of the life you shared with us - the lessons you`ve taught, the example you set, the joy you brought to all our lives. You will live on in all our hearts until the glorious day we can join you in heaven.

I have kept & loved birds from the time I was a teenager 30 years ago. My flock has grown to 28 & includes 2 CAGS named Maggie & Puffer, 4 Goffins` cockatoos (one named Buddy I have had for 22 years), 3 cockatiels, 3 finches, & 16 parakeets (one named Alex:) !

You were always very special to me. I have followed the story of your life for as long as I can remember. I was amazed at the trails you blazed in the study of avian intelligence. You inspired the greatest awe in those who knew of your very important work with Irene & her staff. I find myself frequently visiting your web site to see if there is any news of the current goings-on with your brothers Griffin & Arthur, who I am sure miss you as keenly as the rest of us. My heart aches for Irene & Arlene & all the people who were blessed enough to know you & work with you personally. I pray that time will ease the pain of the acute loss they suffered when you left us in so untimely a fashion. There are lessons to be learned in every hardship inflicted upon us & while it is difficult to imagine what that might be in this case, I am sure that time will reveal the answers we seek. In the meantime, let us be grateful for the time we had with you, dear Alex, & for the precious memories you left us to inspire us to go on & become better than we were for having known of you. I hope that Grif & Wart will continue their special research & follow in your footsteps so that we will be able to watch them develop into the next generation of avian scholars.

A - amazing

L - loved

E - epic

X - eXtraordinary !!

Alex Pepperberg, we will always love you & remember you. We will keep an eye on the adventures of Grif & Wart and pray for the continued good health & well-being of Irene, Arlene, & their research team.

God bless & God speed,

With much love,

Debbie E. & critters

Palmerton, Pennsylvania

P.S. I was very touched by the memorial video made by Tammy Carreiro. Thank you !

Your fame reached many shores and influenced the lives of many people. The care of so many birds has changed thanks to what you have shown us. Thank you for what have taught us. You were a great ambassador and a wonderful character that will never be forgotten.

Fly free little angel. Jacki B

Lieber Alex!

Erst jetzt, am 02. Juli 2008, erfuhr ich, daß Du „aufgestiegen“ bist - eben Deinen letzten Flug gemacht hast - Gott möge mit Dir sein. Dort oben im Himmel existieren keine Sprachbarrieren, sodaß Du mich verstehen wirst, auch wenn ich auf deutsch schreibe. Auf englisch kann ich mich nicht so präzise ausdrücken, wie ich das in meiner Muttersprache kann. Verzeih mir bitte.

Auch wenn ich von Dir lediglich in den Medien immer wieder gehört habe und im fernen Deutschland lebe, so hat mich diese Nachricht sehr getroffen. Als Papageienliebhaber und Besitzer von 2 Graupapageien weiß ich Deine Leistungen zu schätzen, obwohl ich sicherlich nicht ganz so erstaunt darüber bin, wie manch andere Menschen. Zu Lebzeiten warst Du ja leider ein Rupfer, das konnte man sehen. Ich bin mir sicher, es geht Dir jetzt dort oben besser.

Viele Menschen trauern um Deinen Tod, ich gehöre dazu, auch wenn wir uns niemals Auge in Auge gegenübergestanden haben. Und ebenso viele Menschen werden mich nicht verstehen können, doch das ist mir sch...egal.

Du bleibst im Gedächtnis, mach's gut und:

Requiem aeternam dona ei, Domine.
Et lux perpetua luceat ei.
Requiescat in pace!
Amen

Viele Grüße aus Hamburg (Deutschland)

M. Mackprang

ENGLISH TRANSLATION

Dear Alex!

First now, on July 2, 2008, I found out that you "ascended"- made your last flight- God wants to be with you. In heaven no language barriers exist, so that you will understand me, even if I write in German. In English I can't so precisely express, how I can in my mother language. Please forgive me.

Even though I simply heard about you frequently in the media and live far away in Germany, this news hurt me. As parrot lover and owner of 2 gray parrots I know to esteem your performances, although I am definitely not so surprised by them, like some other people. In your lifetime you were unfortunately a "Rupfer", one can see that. I am sure it is going better for you up above.

Many people are mourning over your death, I belong to that, even when we never stood across from each other and saw each other eye to eye. Many people are not able to understand me, but I don't care.

You remain in my thoughts, be well:
Requiem aeternam dona ei, Domine.
Et lux perpetua luceat ei.
Requiescat in pace!
Amen

Many greetings from Hamburg (Germany)

M. Mackprang

Alex, How we miss you. It does not seem like its been nearly a year since you had to leave us. The world is truly a different place without you, but, thanks to you and Dr. P. and your family, it is better. Dr. P., Arlene, Jaimi, and all the lab staff, that worked with you and Griff, & Wart showed the world, what intelligent, social, loving, funny beings parrots are. That you are not creatures that just belong in cages and fed seeds, you think, feel, express, what you want, just like we humans do. The things some humans do to animals, is inexcusable. You are our Prince of Hearts. Our, I say our, like you belong to us, the parronts of our beloved fids,we do feel like you were ours, . You amazed us with your abilities, your sense of humor, even you frustration with the tasks you were asked to repeat over and over. I will never forget you. I wear your pin proudly (I have 2, one on my work ID badge, and one to keep special) and several other Alex gifts. I had a chance to hear Dr. P. speak, a couple of years ago, she was amazing. The program with Griff and Dr. P. was great,he did a awesome job, we are so proud of him.Your mom and you got the worlds attention and won the hearts of all of us who are lucky enough to have earned the love and trust of our birds, Griff and Wart will carry on, your mom is an amazing lady, but then you know that, she will cont. her work, and there will be no limits to what they can accomplish. Thank you , fly free there at the bridge, say hello to my Angel, she is the cockatoo, singing her favorite song, "Angel, Angel, Angel " and swaying side to side, tell her, her mom misses her, and she loves her very much, and that, Dr.'s at the university here in Texas, have made a significant breakthrough in the cause of PDD, treatment, possibly a cure will not be to far away. There are many of us here, brought together, because of you, our love and respect for you, your mom and birdie brothers and extended family at the lab. We will cont. our support of your foundation, so your mom can cont. the work yall' started, and will always keep up with the progress Griff and Wart make, we miss you... Susie

Although I didn't know you personally, I certainly got a wonderful sense about who you were, sweet Alex, through the videos of your work with Dr. Pepperberg and her colleagues. Imagining how very much you are missed by those who interacted with you daily makes my eyes swell with tears. Saying goodbye is never easy, and yet so much good can come from difficult things. News of your passing quickly circled the globe, airing in many nations, bringing a bittersweet message: the announcement of your passing such a devastating loss, and yet, the incredible story of the amazing feathered creature you were, with the joy you brought to so many. You were a shining example of God's handiwork in the avian world, and made many aware of how intelligent and charming parrots really are. HE must have truly enjoyed creating you, Alex !!! Hopefully, the plight of unwanted parrots will change for the better, because people have heard about you and will have a better understanding about parrots in general. Having an endearing & irreplaceable "Alex" (yellow nape Amazon) in my own life, I cannot envision life now without him, so i know your memory is forever etched in the hearts of those who loved you. I'm sure that in your new life, you continue to make all around you smile. And i plan to look you up someday, when I too spread my wings and fly Heavenward. For now, I've adopted as part of my "nighting" ritual with my own Alex a bit of the phrases you often heard. As nighttime falls, and his eyes grow heavy, he hears: "Night night... I love you... see you tomorrow".

Dear Alex,

You were my reason to want an African Grey. I admired you from afar, hearing about you on television and in newspapers. I was absolutely fascinated that you were so smart. I decided on the day I first heard about you, that I just had to have a 'grey baby' like you. I have always liked birds, having parakeets when I was young, but after taking early retirement, I decided to get Grady. He is my 61/2 year old 'child'. He continues to amaze me every day with his comments and antics. I also have a 'little girl', a cinnamon pearl cockatiel named Maxine, a.k.a. Sissy. You were such a special parrot and I know your 'Mom' misses you everyday....we all do. I will always be forever grateful to you and Dr. Pepperberg for sharing your lives with us.

You will always be remembered, and will live on in our hearts forever.

Sue, Grady, and Sissy
Kansas

How do you show your deep gratitude to a soul that lived his life so that others like him, non-humans, could have a better one. Would you have chosen to do this if you would have had the choice ---- somehow I think you would have, Alex. All things with a time and a reason. You were waiting for Dr. Pepperberg that day in the pet store in Chicago because you knew what you were here to do. And as history unfolds, let them make sure they mark the two of you with not only the scientific interest and knowledge in animal cognition, but the realization that animals ‘know’ and their humane treatment is the concern of every one of us.
Charlene

Dear Alex -

It has not been the same world since you left us. Hopefully you are playing around happily at the Bridge, waiting for Dr. P, Arlene, Jaimie and everyone to join you. While you are waiting, could you possibly look for a beautiful Red Lory named Cherry? She went there May 12th after 22 years. Tell her her Mom misses her a lot and also that the cat is still looking over his shoulder, remembering when she chased him under the bed! Also, could you maybe find Tinkerbell, the little gray Cockatiel that has journeyed your way June 15th after 17 years? You and he could whistle tunes together. If you see him, tell him that his Mom misses him, too. He and Cherry might be together there. We all miss you here, Alex, and you be sure and keep Wart and Griffin in line! We will never forget you.

Sincerely, Carole V. (Diva's Mom)

Dear Alex,

I'm sorry I didn't know of you until a while after you passed, I may just be a 15 year old, but that is no excuse. Domino is my best friend ever. She is a normal grey cockatiel. I love her and I played with her but probably not enough. I didn't exactly give her the best conditions or cleanliness either. Also, her cage was too small. I regret what I've done and I only wish I could know what happend to her if I can't bring her back. I know I waited too long, it has been 3 weeks today, but I feel like I have to do something because I owe it too her because she had bad conditions, but I know she liked me best. It was just so sad seeing my other bird preening her, not understanding why she was so still. This probably sounds disrespectful, but my mom has had her in the freezer. I just want her to be with me, however she can after I figure out what happend if I can. My mom said taxidermy but I don't know what's right I want her to be preserved, just like I want my own body preserved so my future family would still be able to see me. I don't know if this makes me sound weird or disrespectful, but I just want to do something in between what's right and her being with me. I'm sorry to say this on your website though. I know this is about remembering Alex and I'm sorry. I watched several videos about him on youtube and thought "he is one talented friend!" I'm sorry for everyone that took care of him and I hope he is doing alright up there. I also hope he can hang out with my Domi so she can have a friend up there! She was only 5 years old. March (not sure what day, I'm sorry), 2003 to July 22, 2008. My mom has all the info and dates about her though, I'll ask her. I don't know what else to do or say, I just wanted to tell other people who care about birds how I feel. She is like a human to me, she is my best pal. Also, one of my other birds was her brother. I got a bigger cage and am doing everything I can to make sure they are healthy. My mom is taking them to a vet for a check-up soon. I have 3 other cockatiels. We got rid of a pearl cockatiel because my mom said the owner of the store at the flea market said she was a baby. But I'm pretty sure when one of my other bird is, you know, "messing around with her" she is not a baby. And even though we had for only two weeks, I miss and love her. I miss love and Domi too. I love Alex and all birds. So know I shall say "LOVE YOU DOMI, HAVE FUN IF YOU CAN! HAVE FUN WITH ALEX TOO, HE'S REALLY SMART!" I also feel just as strongly and care as much about other birds and Alex too.

Love,
Jordan

Dear Alex -

The anniversary of that dreadful day you left us is almost here and we still miss you terribly. You will forever be our hero!! We promise to continue helping Griffin, Arthur, Dr. Pepperberg, Arlene, Jaimi and the rest of your lab family. We know you are very proud of how Griffin is stepping up to continue on with your work.

All our love, XOXOXOXOXO,

Laurie, Birdy & Simon

Alex,

What an amazing little man you were. I have 2 babies like you and I adore them. And I always knew they were smart, but after reading Alex & Me last night, I am completely dumbfounded at how brilliant my sweeties are. Thank you for coming into everyone’s lives. I can’t believe how teary and sad I am writing this. Your death is such a horrible loss for everyone. I can’t even imagine what you would have shown us.

Thank you and thank you Dr. Pepperberg. I heard you lecture once before I even had a thought of a Grey. I had no idea what an adventure awaited me once I saw my first, Wendall, and brought him home to snuggle and nap on my chest when he was a baby. Then we adopted Simbaboobies and taught him to fly. He’s a snuggle-bunny. They both call me in the morning and ask to be let out of their cages. They start the rest of the birds on their morning calls – my Amazon (another adopted baby), my ‘tiels, my ‘keets, and my green cheeked conures. What a happy family. And what a wonderful way to start and end my days!

God speed, big man.

Ann

Hi Sweetie Alex,
We all miss you terribly and think of you often. Thank you for all your hard work showing humans that birdies are people too! My little boy Chilly teaches us new things everyday. His brother Buddy has been in heaven since 2002. Please play with him and tell him his Mama and Daddy miss him so much. Alex, you are a very special little guy. We all love you very much! XoXoXoXo
Love, Ann D

I am Luka, I am 13 years old and live in Croatia.

Hy Alex.

YOU are the friendliest parrot I have ever seen.Before two years you crosed into the world beyond ours. I found it out this day (apr.15th2009). I was on the internet and I was searching for your videos and I saw this atributes made for you. I watched them and cried.It was possibly because i have had a parrot. Her name was Nina and she was a budgerigar parrot. One day we went to the pet shop and bought her some new stuff. We were heading back home and I was so happy because we bought her an new bottle for water in shape of a cactus.I was imagining her drinking out of it but when we got home she was barely standing. She died in the next few minutes.Another reason of my crying was because I thought you are alive. I thought that I could go to America in the next few years, visit you, talk with you and maybe bring you some parrot treats. And there it is.I told you my story Alex but I am afraid that I will never hear yours.

All tears and love for Alex-the african gray parrot

I have just started reading the book "Alex and Me" which I purchased last year. I couldn't bare to bring myself to read this book any sooner, but knew I needed to own it. I miss this little guy so much. I think of him every time I look at and play with my own parrots, a yellow naped amazon, and an African Grey. They truly are remarkable creatures, and quickly become a member of the family, and give so much love and share their incredible intelligence with us. I cannot imagine my life without these guys.

My Grey, Tarzan, sees the picture of Alex on the books cover, and I am positive he knows what a remarkable bird Alex was. Alex will never be forgotten, and will continue to inspire and educate us. Alex will never really be gone.

Tim C. Denver, Colorado. 12/02/2009